A date night doesn't have to follow the same routine every time. Sometimes, trying something different is enough to bring a new spark into the experience.
Some of the best sex toys for couples also work for solo play — you don't need two people to enjoy them. A wearable vibrator lets partners share control, while a clitoral stimulator offers different sensations to explore together.
We picked four Mesanel products that bring something different to shared play. Here's what makes each one worth a closer look.
Our Picks: 4 Couples Sex Toys to Explore
1. CiseCat – For Couples Who Enjoy Taking Turns
THE WEARABLE PICK
Want a couples vibrator that puts the controls in your partner's hands? CiseCat makes that possible with a wearable panty vibrator and a handheld remote.
Its magnetic attachment makes the design easy to adjust, while the detachable vibrator allows more focused clitoral stimulation. It also targets the G-spot and offers seven vibration modes.
Unlike an internet-connected toy, this remote control vibrator works within a stated range of up to 65 feet. Partners use it for nearby interaction, not long-distance control.
2. CoCo – For a Different Kind of External Stimulation
THE SUCTION FAVORITE
Vibration isn't the only sensation worth exploring. If you're curious about a suction vibrator, CoCo offers a different approach with vacuum suction and tongue-like movement.
Its soft silicone lips and compact design make it easy to handle. You can switch between three suction modes and ten licking modes to explore different sensations.
If you and your partner want focused external stimulation, try CoCo instead of a conventional vibrator. It gives you that focus without the extra controls of a wearable device.
3. CoCo Pro – When One Stimulation Type Isn't Enough
THE ALL-IN-ONE PICK
CoCo Pro takes the original CoCo concept further. It combines suction and tongue-like movement with a separate slim G-spot vibrator.
This combination allows users to explore external and G-spot stimulation with different components. Its heating function adds another option to the experience.
The extra components make CoCo Pro larger than the standard CoCo, but they also offer more flexibility.
If you want more than a single-purpose external stimulator, CoCo Pro is worth considering.
4. BossCat – A Wand With a Different Approach
THE WAND-STYLE PICK
A familiar wand vibrator shape can make a toy easier to grip and position. BossCat takes that longer design and combines it with vibration and suction.
It features nine vibration modes and six suction modes. Its larger head gives you another way to enjoy external stimulation. Its longer handle also gives you a grip that compact toys don't offer.
At 270g, BossCat isn't the smallest option for storage or travel. Its appeal lies in combining two functions in a wand-style design.
What Makes a Good Couples Sex Toy?
Couple sex toys come in different shapes, but the best choice isn't always the one with the most features.
If you're comparing vibrators for couples, focus on what actually changes the way you use them.
Compare the Four Picks at a Glance
CiseCat
Wearable Remote-Control Vibrator Handheld remote · 7 vibration modes · Up to 65 ft range |
CoCo
Clitoral Suction Stimulator 3 suction modes · 10 licking modes · Compact design |
CoCo Pro
Multifunctional Dual-Stimulation Vibrator Suction · Tongue-like movement · G-spot stimulation · Heating |
BossCat
Wand-Style Vibrator 9 vibration modes · 6 suction modes · 270g |
- Shared control: A handheld remote lets partners take turns adjusting the settings. CiseCat offers this option for nearby interaction.
- Different sensations: CoCo focuses on suction and tongue-like movement. CoCo Pro adds a separate vibrator, while BossCat combines suction with wand-style vibration.
- Comfortable design: Wearable, compact, and wand-style toys offer different ways to grip, position, and use a device.
- Easy care: Check the material, waterproof rating, and cleaning instructions before buying.
Choose a design that matches how you want to explore together. Extra features only matter if you'll actually use them.
If you're new to vibrators, our how to use a vibrator guide covers the basics to help you get started.
A Few Questions Before You Choose
Can a regular vibrator be used as a couples toy?
Yes. Some of the easiest sex toys to use together are personal vibrators. Both partners can take part in the experience, even if the brand didn't specifically design the product for couples.
Does a remote-controlled vibrator work over any distance?
No. Standard handheld remotes have a limited operating range. CiseCat supports remote control up to 65 feet, not internet-based control across different locations.
How should you clean a couples sex toy?
Follow the brand's instructions. Clean the product after use and check its waterproof rating before washing.
For more cleaning tips, read our guide on how to clean sex toys properly.
Make Room for Something Different
The right sex toys for couples don't need complicated controls or dozens of functions. Sometimes, a different design is all it takes to explore something new together.
Explore the Mesanel Vibrator Collection to find a style that fits your preferences.